Feeling is hot
because embracing your emotions is f*ckin sexy
Feeling is Hot is for people desiring conscious connection. Showing up in novel spaces with the vulnerability to really feel your feelings can be deeply uncomfortable. So we seek to hold space for the deep, dark, sticky stuff while also adding levity to each situation. This extra dash of playful magic may be experienced via offerings such as ecstatic dance, Cacao, poetry, connective exercises, twerking, etc.
Some of our events offer affirming spaces for all genders and sexual orientations to come together, while others offer portals into the potent medicine of feminine connection and are therefore only for femmes to attend.
See our Events page to find the best fit for you!
We believe hotness is a state of mind, and can only shine from the inside out. So let’s co-create a community of authentic hotties radiating their power out into the world. Life can be so scary alone, let’s be friends and support each other’s dreams, yeah?
To learn more about who we are visit our About Us page!
Feeling is Hot…
What does that even mean?
Hotness is a state of mind
The Hotties Have Spoken
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Isabella M.
Sloan creates such a welcoming and cozy space for her cacao ceremonies, making everyone feel right at home. From the moment you walk into her living room, you can feel the warmth and intention she puts into everything. She’s truly amazing at holding space in a way that feels both grounding and uplifting, and you can tell she genuinely cares about building community and connection. Her ceremonies are the perfect mix of spirituality, playfulness, and heart-opening energy. Whether you’re new to this kind of thing or have done it before, she makes everyone feel safe, seen, and supported. It’s always a beautiful experience, and I leave feeling more connected—to myself, to others, and to all that is.
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Carina T.
Attending Erika’s women’s circles has become such a cherished part of my life. Each gathering is a powerful reminder of the magic that happens when women come together to support, uplift, and celebrate one another. I always leave feeling more grounded, inspired, and deeply connected.
Every circle offers something unique and soul-nourishing. At the last one, we let loose with a spontaneous dance party that was pure joy, shared our deepest feelings in a safe and loving space.
We also often take time to journal, which helps me process and tune in with my inner voice.
These circles are the perfect blend of fun, healing, creativity, and connection. I can’t recommend it enough.
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Caiti B.
Sloan does a wonderful job leading cacao ceremonies! I always leave feeling more connected and I'm happy to be a part of such a supportive and creative community!
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Carina T.
I have the most incredible time at Sloan’s cacao nights! From the moment I walk in, I am greeted with warmth, good vibes, and a sense of community that makes me feel instantly at home. The evenings are the perfect blend of heart-opening connection, creativity, and soul-nourishing rituals.
Drinking the rich, delicious cacao feels like a sacred experience in itself—grounding, comforting, and energizing all at once.
One of the highlights for me was the poetry exploration. Whether you're a seasoned writer or just dipping your toes into creative expression, the prompts and gentle guidance created such a safe and inspiring space to let words flow. Hearing others share their work was equally moving—it reminded me of how powerful it is to be witnessed and to witness others.
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Katie S.
Being part of Sloan and Erika’s circles has honestly been such a gift. It’s one of the few spaces where I’ve felt totally safe to show up as I am, without my mask and without any pressure. There’s so much laughter, play, and connection, and it’s reminded me that healing doesn’t have to be so serious all the time. Learning how to really connect with other women in this way has been deeply healing. I’ve made friendships here that feel like soul family! I highly highly recommend this space for all those who are called to healing in community with kind hearted safe people.
